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Top 3 Things You Need to Know About Prayer (That Could Change Your Life)

February 26, 2025 / / 1 Comment

Prayer. For some, it’s a lifeline. For others, it feels like sending a text with no response. You know one of those questions asked of someone with read receipts on and they never reply!

Maybe you’ve found yourself wondering: Am I doing this right? Is anyone even listening? Is this thing on!? Well simply put: yes, yes, and yes. But let’s be honest—prayer can be confusing, especially when life gets messy or you feel like your prayers are bouncing off the ceiling.

There is good news however. Prayer doesn’t have to be complicated, fancy, or reserved for the “super christians.” It’s simply a conversation with God. If you want your prayer life to be less awkward and more impactful, here are three things you need to know that just might change everything.

1. God Actually Wants to Hear from You (Yeah, You)

Ok. Let’s clear something up: prayer isn’t about using the right words or sounding holy. You don’t need to bust out 17th-century King James English to get God’s attention. (“O Lord, Thou art most glorious and…” Yeah, He knows.) God wants you to come as you are—messy, honest, and real.

Think about it: if you’re a parent, you don’t require your kids to craft a formal speech before talking to you. God’s the same way. He loves hearing from you—whether you’re praising Him, venting frustrations, or just saying, “Help!” Don’t let guilt or uncertainty keep you quiet. Start talking. God’s not waiting for perfection; He’s waiting for you.

Pro tip: Not sure where to start? Try this: “God, Today I need…” Just fill in the blank with something you can’t hold in your hand (focus, peace, etc) Then wait. Simple. Honest. Powerful.

2. Prayer Is Less About Fancy Words and More About a Real Relationship

Imagine if you only talked to your best friend when you needed something. Or worse yet, if every conversation was a rushed list of demands: “Hey, I need you to fix this, do that, and make this happen. Cool? Bye.” That friendship wouldn’t last long.

Prayer is about connection, not just requests. Yeah, God wants you to bring your needs to Him, but He also wants you to share your heart. Thank Him for the good things. Be honest about your fears. Celebrate the wins. Grieve the losses. Listen for His guidance.

Relationships thrive on communication. The more you talk to God (and listen), the stronger your connection will be. And here’s the kicker: you don’t need to set aside an hour in a candlelit room of solitude. Talk to Him while driving (just don’t close your eyes please), folding laundry, or walking the dog. He’s always available—no appointment necessary.

Bonus tip: Silence isn’t God ignoring you. Sometimes He speaks in the stillness. Don’t rush it.

3. Prayer Changes Things… and It Changes You

We often think of prayer as a way to get God to act. And yes, prayer moves the heart of God. Miracles happen. Peace arrives. Circumstances shift. But sometimes, the biggest change happens in us.

Prayer can soften a hard heart, calm anxious thoughts, and bring clarity when you’re stuck. Even when God doesn’t answer the way you hoped, He often gives you strength to face the situation. And that’s no small thing.

And let’s be honest: sometimes the answer is “yes,” but sometimes it’s “I have something better in mind.” Trusting God’s timing isn’t easy, but it’s worth it. Keep praying. Even when it feels like nothing’s happening, God is working, sometimes behind the scenes in ways you can’t see.

Encouragement: Don’t quit praying just because you haven’t seen immediate results. Some of the best answers come after the longest waits.

Prayer isn’t about checking a Jesus box. It’s about relationship. It’s about bringing your whole, messy, beautiful self to God and trusting that He hears you, loves you, and responds in His perfect way (and time).

So, talk to Him. Be honest. Be persistent. Be yourself. You don’t need a script. You just need a willing heart.

And remember: you’re not alone. At Living Word Galena, we believe prayer is foundational to life and faith. If you need someone to pray with you, reach out. We’re here for you. God is, too.

Your prayers matter. You matter. Don’t let doubt or busyness rob you of the life-changing gift of prayer. Start the conversation. You might just be surprised at what happens next.

Top 3 Things Every Parent Should Know About Raising Teens in Today’s World

February 25, 2025 / / 0 Comments

Ok. Let’s be honest: raising teenagers today feels like trying to read a book that keeps rewriting itself. Just when you think you understand the rules, bam! – there’s a new social media platform, slang that sounds like another language, or a trend that makes you question reality (Tide Pods, really?). Parenting teens has never been easy, but in a world that moves at the speed of a Formula One Race, it can feel overwhelming. The good news? You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be present, prayerful, and prepared. Here are three essential truths every parent should know about raising teens today.

1. They’re Listening… Even When It Seems Like They Aren’t

Yes, they roll their eyes. Yes, they respond with one-word answers (“Fine.” “Whatever.”). And yes, they often have earbuds in like it’s their default setting. But here’s the deal: your voice matters more than you think. Studies consistently show that parents remain the most influential voices in a teenager’s life, even when culture suggests otherwise.

So, talk to them. And not just about chores or grades. Talk about real stuff: faith, friendships, struggles, dreams, and yes, even those awkward topics you’d rather avoid. They may act disinterested, but your consistency speaks volumes. Keep showing up in the conversations. Plant seeds. They’re listening more than they let on.

Pro tip: Sometimes the best talks happen when you’re not looking at each other: driving in the car, taking a walk, or doing dishes together. No pressure, just presence.

2. They Need Boundaries (Even If They Fight Them)

Teenagers crave freedom, but they also need fences. Think of boundaries like guardrails on a winding mountain road: they may complain about them, but they help prevent a dangerous fall. Setting clear expectations around things like technology use, curfews, and responsibilities isn’t being controlling—it’s being a parent! It’s actually loving to have some clear expectations and boundaries.

Yes, you’ll face pushback. There may be dramatic sighs, door slams, or the classic, “You just don’t understand!” (insert whining voice here) That’s okay. Stay calm. Be firm but fair. Boundaries aren’t about punishment; they’re about guidance. Teens feel more secure when they know where the lines are, even if they love to continually test them.

And remember: it’s okay to say no. No is a complete sentence. You’re not your teen’s best friend; you’re their parent. Friendship may come later, but for now, they need you to lead with love and clarity.

3. They’re Wrestling with Big Questions (And Need a Safe Place to Ask Them)

Adolescence is a season of searching. Teens are figuring out who they are, what they believe, and where they fit in the world. That means they’ll have questions—sometimes big, unsettling ones about faith, identity, and purpose.

The worst thing you can do? Shut down those questions or panic. Telling them what they can or can’t believe or how they have to react won’t be helpful! Instead, create space for honest conversations. If they ask something that stumps you (“Why does God allow suffering?” or “How could you vote for ______”) it’s okay to say, “That’s a great question. Let’s explore that together.” You don’t need all the answers. What your teen needs is your willingness to journey with them.

Look – matters of life and faith aren’t just taught—they’re caught. When your teen sees you wrestling with questions, seeking God, and living authentically, it makes an impression. Don’t underestimate the power of your example.

Bonus tip: Encourage your teen to get involved in groups with grown up humans they can trust. Sometimes they need another trusted adult to echo the truths you’re teaching at home.

Parenting teens in today’s world isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s messy, unpredictable, and often challenging. But it’s also filled with incredible opportunities to guide, love, and shape your child as they navigate the journey to adulthood.

Remember: you’re not alone. If you’re a Jesus follower or a church goer, I’ll remind you that God is with you. If you’re part of our community of faith, your church family at Living Word Galena is here to support you. Stay patient, stay prayerful, and never underestimate the impact of your presence. Your teenager doesn’t need a perfect parent—they need you.

Busy Is the New Lazy

February 24, 2025 / / 0 Comments

“I’d love to help, but I’m just too busy.”
“I really want to get more involved…but life is crazy right now.”
“I know I should spend more time with God, but there’s just so much going on.”

Sound familiar?

We’ve all said it. Life moves fast—work deadlines, family commitments, kids’ activities, social obligations. There’s always something demanding our attention. But here’s the truth: Busyness, while understandable, can easily become an excuse to not try.

If we’re not careful, being “too busy” becomes the reason we stop serving, stop growing, stop connecting, and stop worshiping.

Busy Isn’t the Problem—It’s our Priorities

The hard reality? We make time for what matters most to us.

We rarely “forget” to eat or skip our favorite shows. We carve out time for what fills us—whether that’s entertainment, hobbies, or scrolling through our phones. So why does time with God, serving others, or gathering for worship so easily get pushed to the bottom of the list?

Jesus lived a full life. Crowds followed Him, people constantly sought His help, and His mission was nothing short of saving the world. Yet, He still made time to step away, pray, and prioritize His relationship with the Father (Luke 5:16).

If Jesus needed that space, how much more do we?

Busyness Can Quietly Erode Your Spiritual Life

We tell ourselves, “It’s just a busy season—it’ll slow down soon.” But if we’re honest, another season of busyness always follows. The enemy doesn’t always need to tempt us with obvious sin; sometimes, he just keeps us distracted enough to prevent spiritual growth.

Think about it:

  • How often do you say, “I just don’t have time to pray,” yet find time to scroll social media?
  • How many weekends fill up with activities, while worship and community with believers take a backseat?
  • How often do good things—work, family events, hobbies—crowd out the best thing: time with God?

These are hard questions, not to induce guilt, but to invite reflection. Life will be full—but is it full of the right things?

Let’s Be Honest

We all juggle responsibilities. No one’s asking you to neglect work or family. But what if being “too busy” for God actually points to misplaced priorities rather than a packed schedule?

What if, instead of saying, “I don’t have time,” we just simply admitted, “It hasn’t been a priority”? It’s uncomfortable—but it’s also freeing. When we’re honest about what matters most, we can make meaningful changes.

Jesus asked, “What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?” (Mark 8:36).

Busyness might help us achieve goals, advance careers, or keep our families entertained—but if it costs us intimacy with God or the Spiritual wellbeing of our kiddos, is it really worth it?

Parents: Your kids notice what you prioritize. Making time for worship and spiritual conversations speaks louder than any lecture.
Professionals: No promotion is worth spiritual exhaustion. Your faith life will be there far after your new raise.
Students: Your schedule feels packed now, but forming good habits today shapes you for a healthy future.

Let’s Get Practical

You don’t need a complete life overhaul—just a few intentional steps:

✅ Reflect on Your Time: Where do the hours go? (Check your screen time or your calendar—you might be surprised.)
✅ Prioritize Worship: Sunday worship isn’t just another item on the to-do list—it’s soul-filling fuel. Missing periodically should be just that, periodically. I have to commend those people who I see come on Sunday even though they have to leave early. Making worship a priority, even if you have to scoot before it’s over, is a huge step in the right direction!
✅ Say “No” So You Can Say “Yes”: Not everything deserves your “yes.” Protect space for what truly matters. I heard one time that every yes represents a no somewhere else. By saying “yes” to this one thing, what are you also saying “no” to?
✅ Schedule God-Time: Put Scripture reading and prayer on your calendar like any other important appointment.

Let’s Not Miss What Matters

One day, the meetings, practices, and deadlines won’t matter. But your relationship with Jesus—that one’s gonna last forever.

Being busy isn’t a sin—but being too busy for God robs you of joy, peace, and even purpose. Let’s not settle for lives so full of “stuff” that we miss the fullness of life in Christ.

So here’s the gentle challenge: What’s one thing you can adjust this week to make more room for God?

You’ll never regret putting Him at the center of all you do.

Is That An Idol In Your Pocket?

February 19, 2025 / / 1 Comment

Honesty moment—what’s the first thing you reach for in the morning? Is it your Bible or your phone?

For most people, it’s not even a question. The phone wins. Emails, texts, social media, news updates—it all floods in before our feet even hit the floor. And whether we admit it or not, that little device isn’t just a tool; it’s become our most dominant teacher.

Who’s or What’s Really Discipling You?

Discipleship is about shaping your thoughts, priorities, and habits. It’s about what you allow to guide you, correct you, and influence your decisions. So a simple equation that I like to use. Time equals devotion and if time equals devotion, then for many Jesus Followers, TikTok is their pastor, Instagram is their small group, and Google is their theologian.

We have more access to God’s Word than any generation before us. Sermons are a click away. Bible apps are everywhere. But instead of feeding on Scripture, we binge content that disciples us in distraction, outrage, comparison, and self-indulgence.

Jesus calls us to take up our cross daily (Luke 9:23), but for too many of us, the only thing we pick up daily is our phone.

Your Phone Is Winning the Battle for Your Mind

Paul tells us in Romans 12:2, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” The problem? Our phones are shaping our minds way more than the Word of God.

Think about it:

  • Social media tells you what to care about. If it’s trending, it must be important, right? But how often do trending topics align with the things of God?
  • Algorithms decide what you see. Every scroll, every click, every “like” trains your feed to shape your worldview.
  • Your attention span is being rewired. If content doesn’t hook you in three seconds, you move on. No wonder it’s hard to focus on prayer or Scripture.

This has become far more than a bad habit. It’s spiritual warfare. The enemy doesn’t need to drag you into deep sin—he just needs to keep you distracted enough that you never grow. And the enemy is not the person who sees the world differently than you do! The enemy is the one who doesn’t want you to thrive in every area of life.

Are You Using Your Phone, or Is It Using You?

We love to say, “Phones aren’t bad, it’s just how you use them.” That’s true—to a point. But let’s not kid ourselves. Most of us aren’t using our phones to memorize Scripture and evangelize. We’re wasting hours on empty entertainment, comparing our lives to filtered versions of other people that we don’t even know! Not to mention numbing ourselves with constant noise.

Conviction moment…

  • Do you check your phone more than you pray?
  • Do you read notifications more than Scripture?
  • Do you mindlessly scroll when you could be sitting in silence with God?
  • Do you get more anxious when your phone dies than when you left the Bible on the chair at church?

If your phone gets more devotion than Jesus, it’s time for a change.

Reclaim Your Discipleship

You don’t have to throw your phone in the ocean (even though some of us might need to). But you do need to take control before it takes control of you.

Here are a few places to start:

  1. Bookend Your Day with God. Keep your phone away from your bed. Start and end your day in Scripture and prayer—before any screen. Don’t overthink this one. Tell Jesus about your day. Ask him about the day in front of you. That’s it! No fancy words. No canned jargon. Just you and Jesus and sharing what’s on your mind.
  2. Fast from the Feed. Take breaks from social media. Maybe one day a week. Maybe a whole month. Watch how your mind clears. If that makes you twitch a little, then consider setting aside no notification times. I often use the Do Not Disturb function on my phone. No emails, texts, social notifications come through at all! Ok there are a few who get emergency rights but those are very limited!
  3. Don’t Remove, Replace. If you cut out screen time but don’t replace it with time in the Word, prayer, or actual connection with other humans, you’ll just fill the gap with something else empty. It’s far too easy to fall back into bad habits if we don’t replace those with something good. Not eating donuts won’t be of much benefit if we don’t replace that with some good, healthy sources of protein.
  4. Ask: Who’s Forming Me? Before you open an app, ask, Is this helping me become more like Jesus? If the answer is no, maybe it’s time to rethink your habits. Now this one about made some of you throw your device against the wall. This doesn’t mean that all tech is bad. Hey I’m writing this on my laptop using the internet! Just set specific times when you can aimlessly graze on stuff. If it’s not in your grazing time, then fill yourself with something beneficial and filling.

It’s Time to Choose Your Master

Jesus said, “No one can serve two masters” (Matthew 6:24). Right now, many of us are trying to serve both Jesus and our phones—and let’s be real, our phones are winning.

But they don’t have to.

You can take control. You can change your habits. You can choose to let Jesus, not a screen, shape your heart, mind, and soul.

So the question is—who’s discipling you? Jesus? Or the idol in your pocket?

The Power of Rest

February 10, 2025 / / 0 Comments

Life moves fast, especially for busy families. Between work, school, sports, and endless errands, we often feel like we’re sprinting from one thing to the next, barely catching our breath. In the middle of this chaos, Jesus speaks a powerful invitation in Matthew 11:28-30:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

These words may sound simple, but they hold the key to experiencing the grace of Jesus in a way that transforms our everyday lives.

The Grace Found in Rest

Many of us think of grace as something we receive when we first believe in Jesus—a gift that forgives our sins and promises us eternal life. And while that’s true, grace is so much more. It’s also the unearned, constant presence of Jesus in our lives, sustaining us and guiding us through every moment.

But here’s the catch: we often miss that grace because we’re too busy striving. We think if we just work a little harder, do a little more, or hustle a little faster, we’ll find peace. Instead, Jesus tells us to stop and rest.

Real grace is found when we rest in the completed work of Jesus—not in our own efforts. On the cross, Jesus said, “It is finished.” That wasn’t just a declaration of victory over sin; it was an invitation to stop striving and start trusting.

What Rest Looks Like

Rest doesn’t just mean taking a nap (though sometimes that helps too!). True rest is about leaning into Jesus, trusting His leadership, and letting Him carry the weight of our worries.

When Jesus talks about taking His yoke upon us, He’s using an image from farming. A yoke is a wooden frame that binds two animals together so they can pull a load together. By taking His yoke, we’re choosing to walk alongside Jesus, letting Him guide us and carry the bulk of the weight.

The beauty of this yoke is that often in farming this was a training method for newer animals to the farm. They would yoke a mature and experienced animal with a younger, immature one. The mature and experienced beast would keep the immature one on task and teach them how to do the job correctly. So perhaps we too need to be yoked to someone who is more mature and experienced than we are?

Here are a couple of suggestions that I have considered in my own life:

  • Intentional Quiet Time: Even 10 minutes of prayer or reading Scripture can reset your mind and heart.
  • Letting Go of Control: Hand over your worries and responsibilities to Jesus through prayer.
  • Saying No to Overcommitment: Sometimes the most faithful thing you can do is create margin in your schedule.
  • Living in Community: Being part of a church family helps remind us that we don’t have to carry life’s burdens alone.

The Light Burden of Jesus

Notice that Jesus doesn’t promise a life without burdens—He promises a light burden. That’s because His grace changes how we carry things. When we rest in Him, we stop striving for perfection, stop carrying guilt over our shortcomings, and stop trying to control outcomes that only God can handle.

Instead, we begin to experience the joy and freedom that come from knowing we are already fully loved and accepted by Jesus. That’s grace—unearned, abundant, and freely given.

Living Restfully as a Church Community

At Living Word Galena, we’re committed to helping busy families experience this kind of grace. That’s why we prioritize being a community where people can find refreshment in worship, grow in supportive relationships, and discover the peace that comes from resting in Jesus.

We believe life works best with Jesus—not because He adds more to your to-do list, but because He invites you to lay down the heavy burdens and walk in His light and easy way.

So today, take a deep breath. Hear the voice of Jesus calling you to rest. Stop striving, and let grace meet you right where you are. His arms are wide open, and His promise is sure: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Necessity of Rhythm with God

January 31, 2025 / / 0 Comments

Have you ever felt disconnected from God? Like you pray for things and nothing changes? Like you ask and he just doesn’t answer? Wonder if God is perhaps sleeping behind some curtain the space like the Wizard of Oz?

Establishing a consistent rhythm of Bible reading is essential for deepening our understanding of God’s will and character, and for fostering a meaningful relationship with Him. Regular rhythms of Bible reading not only reveal divine guidance but also transform our lives in profound ways.

The Bible is unique among religious texts in that it presents a God who actively communicates with humanity. I was recently directed to an article titled Out of the Silent Universe by John Stonestreet. The author highlights how the phrase “Thus says the Lord” appears over 400 times in Scripture, emphasizing that God desires to reveal Himself to us. This divine communication invites us into a personal relationship, allowing us to know not just His will but His very nature. The Bible offers more than rules and guidelines—it invites us into the very heart of God.

Why a Rhythm Matters

Doing something one time or even a few times will often ease some pain or bring some temporary feelings of change and relief. But when something becomes part of our life rhythm, it is consistent and life altering. It’s not just Bible reading either. Think about those New Year’s resolutions. Why do we quit so quickly? They don’t become part of the rhythm of our life!

Consistency is key to growth in any aspect of life, and spiritual growth is no exception. Just as regular exercise strengthens the body and consistent learning sharpens the mind, a steady rhythm of Bible reading nurtures the soul. When we engage with Scripture daily, we create space for God to speak into our lives, guide our decisions, and shape our character.

A consistent Bible reading rhythm helps us stay anchored in truth. In a world filled with conflicting messages, Scripture provides a reliable foundation. It reminds us of God’s promises, His unchanging nature, and His call for us to live lives of love and obedience. By making Bible reading a regular part of our routine, we cultivate a heart that is more attuned to God’s voice and better equipped to discern His will.

The Impact of Regular Bible Reading

Research underscores the transformative power of engaging with Scripture in a consistent rhythm. A study by the Center for Bible Engagement found that individuals who engage with the Bible at least four times a week experience significant life changes:

  • Feeling lonely drops 30%
  • Anger issues drop 32%
  • Bitterness in relationships drops 40%
  • Alcoholism drops 57%
  • Sex outside of marriage drops 68%
  • Feeling spiritually stagnant drops 60%
  • Viewing pornography drops 61%
  • Sharing your faith jumps 200%
  • Discipling others jumps 230%

These statistics highlight the profound differences between those who engage with Scripture regularly and those who do not. Regular Bible reading not only reduces negative behaviors but also encourages positive actions, such as sharing one’s faith and mentoring others. It’s important to note that this rhythm is based on four times a week. This same study showed how less than four times a week had a measurably lower effectiveness rate.

Experiencing God Through His Word

The Bible is more than a rulebook—it’s a living, breathing testament to who God is. Through its pages, we encounter His faithfulness, mercy, justice, and love. We see His heart for humanity and His desire for a relationship with each of us. By spending time in Scripture, we get to know God on a deeper level. We move beyond simply knowing about Him to truly knowing Him.

God’s Word also speaks into the everyday moments of our lives. When we face challenges, Scripture provides comfort and guidance. When we celebrate victories, it reminds us to give thanks. Through regular reading, we build a reservoir of truth that we can draw upon in any situation.

If we think of the truths of the Bible like arrows, our goal should be to have an arrow of truth for every lie the devil brings to our lives. Some find it surprising, but there’s a truth in the Bible for every situation we find ourselves in throughout life. This is why that regular rhythm is so vital. This can be a daunting idea, so here’s a quick list of some practical steps. No matter where we are in our rhythm, we can always be more intentional.

Practical Tips for Establishing a Bible Reading Rhythm

  1. Start Small: Begin with a few verses or a short passage each day. As you grow more comfortable, increase the amount of time you spend reading.
  2. Set a Specific Time: Choose a time of day that works best for you, whether it’s in the morning, during lunch, or before bed.
  3. Create a Dedicated Space: Find a quiet place where you can read without distractions.
  4. Use a Reading Plan: Following a plan can help you stay on track and ensure you’re reading a variety of Scripture.
  5. Journal Your Thoughts: Write down what stands out to you, questions you have, and how God is speaking to you through His Word.
  6. Pray for Understanding: Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your reading and help you apply God’s Word to your life.

The Eternal Impact

Incorporating regular Bible reading into your daily routine can lead to a more fulfilling and spiritually enriched life. By engaging with God’s Word consistently, you open yourself to His guidance, wisdom, and transformative power. This practice not only deepens your relationship with God but also equips you to navigate life’s challenges with faith and resilience.

As the research indicates, the benefits of engaging with Scripture are both profound and far-reaching, impacting various aspects of our lives and relationships. When we prioritize time in God’s Word, we become more like Christ, reflecting His love and truth to the world around us.

In a world that often feels chaotic and uncertain, establishing a rhythm of Bible reading is a lifeline. It grounds us in God’s truth, strengthens our faith, and draws us closer to the One who loves us unconditionally. So, pick up your Bible today and discover the life-changing power of God’s Word—your life will never be the same. If you’re looking for a plan to use or a little help in that rhythm, here’s a reading plan and a daily podcast from the church I serve. In 3 minutes we gain insight into that day’s reading, lifting the fog on some of those challenging sections of the Bible and applying them to our daily lives.

Three Things Your Elders Should Never Do

January 30, 2025 / / 1 Comment

Effective leadership in the church starts with wise and spiritually grounded elders. These individuals play a crucial role in shepherding the congregation and ensuring the church stays focused on its mission while grounded in the Bible. I’ve been blessed in my ministry to have fantastic men surround me in this capacity!

In my experience, there are three major pitfalls that elders must avoid in order to lead well. None of these are theological or biblical but very much practical.

1. Majoring in the Minors

It’s easy for elders to get bogged down in the nitty-gritty details—what color the carpet should be, how many donuts to order for Sunday morning, or micromanaging individual ministry programs. But that’s not their primary calling.

Elders aren’t part of the church structure to make sure your pet ministry happens without a hitch. They’re not there to lobby for their pet project. Actually when elders function in the biblical capacity, they aren’t really involved in the nuts and bolts of any one particular ministry.

Elders are tasked with overseeing the big picture of the church’s mission and spiritual health. When they spend too much time on minor details, they lose sight of the broader vision.

I’m reminded of Acts 6, when the apostles delegated the daily distribution of food so they could focus on prayer and ministry of the Word. The apostles knew this was a very important aspect of ministry, but they also knew that if they were the ones doing it – something else would suffer. So they found others who’s gifting was organization and administration of these kinds of services. That’s a perfect example of staying focused on the right priorities for their position.

Nothing wrong with food distribution or folding bulletins or donut management. Just not the right focus for the elder when he properly functions in the role.

Bottom Line: Elders should prioritize prayer, teaching, care, and vision-setting. Leave the day to day tasks to capable ministry leaders. Not only does this allow you to do your ministry of elder properly, but it also allows others to be elevated to serve!

2. Lone Ranger Syndrome

Eldership is a team sport, not a solo gig. When an elder starts acting independently—making decisions on their own or driving personal agendas—it creates confusion and division. The elder, as I’ve always understood it, is an extension of the pastoral office. Where I can’t be, sometimes they can. When an emergency arises, they can often respond faster than I can. When someone is hurting, they might be able to see something I can’t see. But it only works if we walk this role together.

Scripture always talks about elders in the plural for a reason. God designed leadership in the church to be shared, ensuring accountability, diverse perspectives, and collective wisdom. Even God is a singular, yet plural God. One God in three persons is how we describe it. The first not good in the Bible was when Adam was alone. Elders are the same.

So often we set pastors, church workers and elders out on an island and hope for the best. Even in our schools and seminaries we teach these men and women to be Lone Ranger forgetting that even he had his trusty companion.

Bottom Line: Healthy churches have elders who lead together, making decisions prayerfully and collaboratively alongside the pastoral staff.

3. All for Them, None for Me

Elders are often so focused on serving the church that they neglect their own spiritual health. This is dangerous territory. You can’t pour from an empty cup. You can’t give what you don’t have. And you can’t lead beyond where you are.

If elders aren’t regularly in the Word, spending time in prayer, and nurturing their relationship with Jesus, their ability to lead spiritually will negatively impacted. And everyone will see it. You can only hide this for so long before it will catch up to you. Plus, elders are called to be examples to the flock—how can they model spiritual growth if they aren’t living it themselves?

It’s like the airline imagery. You know when you totally tune out as the flight attendants are going through the safety information. In the event that the cabin loses air pressure the face masks drop from the ceiling – yeah now you can hear it can’t you! Then the line comes…if you’re traveling with little children, put the mask on yourself first then your child. Most parents are like No way I’m letting my baby go without oxygen. The hitch here is if we don’t do it in this order, we might pass out and not be able to take care of our kiddo!

Likewise, if elders aren’t caring for their own spiritual lives there won’t be anything left to give the members of the church they are called to serve.

Bottom Line: Elders must prioritize their personal spiritual growth to effectively lead the church.

Elders who avoid these pitfalls will be better positioned to guide their congregations toward a thriving, Jesus-centered future. Let’s pray for and support our church leaders as they strive to major in the majors, work together, and keep their own hearts tuned to the Spirit.

Uncomplicated Prayer

January 29, 2025 / / 1 Comment

Prayer can sometimes feel daunting. Maybe you’ve found yourself sitting in silence, unsure of what to say, or wondering if God even hears you. You’re definitely not alone. Many of us struggle with knowing how to pray, how to come before God with more than just a list of needs, and how to truly hear from Him.

When words fail or when our hearts feel restless, Scripture offers a profound guide to lead us into deep, meaningful prayer. One method of prayer that I have found extremely meaningful is to use one of the Psalms, which have served as the prayer book of God’s people for generations. Psalm 1 is a good place to start. It paints a vivid picture of two paths—the way of the righteous and the way of the wicked—while inviting us to delight in God’s Word. This is actually a prayer I prayed over my children before I went to bed for many years as they were growing up. As we reflect on each verse, we can transform this ancient text into a personal, heartfelt prayer.

Verse 1: “Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers.”

Lord, help me to walk in Your ways today. Guard my steps so that I don’t stray into paths that lead me away from You. When I’m tempted to conform to the world’s patterns, strengthen me to choose righteousness. Surround me with godly influences, and keep me mindful of the voices I allow into my life.

Verse 2: “But whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on His law day and night.”

Father, teach me to delight in Your Word. Let it be like sweet honey to my soul. As I read and reflect on Scripture, help me not just to gain knowledge but to encounter You. May Your truth shape my thoughts, decisions, and desires. I long to meditate on Your Word, not just in fleeting moments, but throughout the rhythms of my day.

Verse 3: “That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither—whatever they do prospers.”

Lord, plant me by the streams of Your living water. Nourish my spirit so that I may bear fruit in Your perfect timing. When seasons of drought come, keep my faith strong and unwavering. Let my life be a testament to Your sustaining grace, flourishing even in challenges.

Verse 4-5: “Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.”

Father, protect me from becoming like chaff—empty and rootless. Keep me grounded in You, with a heart that seeks righteousness. Help me to trust Your justice and leave judgment in Your hands.

Verse 6: “For the Lord watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked leads to destruction.”

Thank You, Lord, for watching over my path. Even when I cannot see the way ahead, I trust that You are guiding me. Lead me on the path that brings life and joy in You.

Praying through the Psalms allows us to engage with God in a deeply personal way. Psalm 1 reminds us that prayer is not merely a ritual but a journey—one that roots us by streams of living water and aligns our hearts with God’s eternal truth. As you meditate on these verses, may your prayers flow freely, drawing you ever closer to the One who watches over your way.

Evangelism: The Heart of Discipleship

January 23, 2025 / / 0 Comments

Evangelism is not a program, a ministry, or an optional add-on to our Christian walk. It’s not reserved for the extroverts, the theologians, or the church staff. Evangelism is an integral part of discipleship—it’s the outflow of a life transformed by Jesus. When we understand this, evangelism moves from being something we “do” to being a natural part of who we are as followers of Jesus.

At its core, evangelism isn’t about delivering a perfect presentation or debating theology. It’s about relationships. Jesus didn’t hand out flyers or host seminars. He sat at tables, walked along dusty roads, and entered into the messiness of people’s lives. He listened, loved, and shared the truth of God’s kingdom in ways that were personal and relational.

We can follow His model through a simple yet powerful three-story approach to evangelism: Their Story, Your Story, God’s Story.

1. First Story Is Their Story

Stories are so important! They are memorable and often filled with deep meaning. Every person you meet carries a story—filled with joys, struggles, dreams, and questions. Before we speak, we need to listen. When we genuinely care about someone’s story, we reflect the love of Jesus.

Ask questions. Get to know what makes them tick. What are they passionate about? What challenges are they facing? What’s their story of faith—or lack of it? This isn’t a manipulative tactic; it’s an act of love. People are longing to be heard and understood.

Starting with their story builds trust. It shows that we value them as people, not as projects. And it often opens the door for deeper conversations about meaning, purpose, and hope.

2. Share Your Own Story

Once we’ve listened, we can share. But not in a way that preaches or overwhelms. Share your story. What difference has Jesus made in your life? How has His grace carried you through your own challenges?

Your story doesn’t have to be dramatic. In fact, the quieter moments of faith—the peace in a storm, the joy in the mundane—often resonate the most. Keep it real. Be vulnerable. Let them see how Jesus meets you in your humanity.

When we share our stories honestly, we bridge the gap between their struggles and God’s hope. We show them that faith isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being redeemed.

3. Connect Their Story to God’s Story

Finally, connect the dots. This is where we help people see how their story fits into the greater story of God’s love.

God’s story is one of redemption, grace, and purpose. It’s the story of a Savior who left heaven to rescue us. A story of a God who turns brokenness into beauty and offers eternal hope to all who believe.

Help them see how God’s story speaks into their struggles and longings. If they’re feeling lost, point them to the Good Shepherd who leads and guides. If they’re overwhelmed, share the peace that passes understanding. If they’re searching for purpose, invite them to discover the God who created them with intention and love.

This step isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about pointing them to Jesus and trusting the Holy Spirit to do the rest.

Evangelism in Everyday Life

This three-story approach—Their Story, Your Story, God’s Story—isn’t a formula to follow; it’s a rhythm for life. Evangelism works best when it’s organic, relational, and rooted in love. When we make this rhythm part of our daily rhythm, people’s lives (including our own) will be transformed by the greatest story ever lived.

As disciples of Jesus, we’re called to make more disciples in the going moments of life. This isn’t just a command; it’s an invitation to join God in His redemptive work. So, listen deeply, share authentically, and connect boldly.

Evangelism isn’t an event, a ministry or a program. It’s simply walking with others toward Jesus—one story at a time.

Jesus Should Not Be First

January 13, 2025 / / 1 Comment

Jesus does not want to be first in your life. That might sound shocking, but it’s the truth. Jesus doesn’t ask for first place—He demands the only place. Why? Because He’s not interested in being a slice of your life’s pie chart. He’s not satisfied with being another line item on your endless to-do list. He’s not here to share space with your career, hobbies, relationships, or even your family.

The first commandment makes it painfully clear:
“You shall have no other gods before me.” (Exodus 20:3)

The Hebrew here is intense. “Before me” literally means “in My face.” God’s saying, “Don’t you dare put anything in My face that tries to compete with Me.” He’s not interested in your priorities; He’s claiming everything.

Here’s the harsh reality: we’ve turned our lives into idol factories. We’re constantly elevating good things—family, work, fitness, finances—into god things. And we love to rank them:

  1. God
  2. Family
  3. Career
  4. Hobbies

That’s a nice, neat little list isn’t it? It feels spiritual. It feels balanced. But it’s a lie. If Jesus is just a “first among equals,” you’ve completely missed the point. He’s not “first.” He’s everything.

Let me say it another way: If Jesus isn’t your everything, He’s nothing. He doesn’t share the throne. He’s not a consultant for your life plan. He’s the King who demands full allegiance.

The Danger of “First”

When we say Jesus is “first,” what we really mean is, “I’ll give Him a little time, energy, and attention, but I’ve got other stuff to do.” We check the box by going to church, reading a quick devotional, or tossing a few bucks into the offering plate. Then we get back to building our own kingdoms.

But Jesus doesn’t want a piece of your life—He wants the whole thing. That’s why He said: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)

Deny yourself. Not rearrange your priorities. Not carve out a little Jesus time. Not give Him first dibs. Deny yourself. That means your dreams, your goals, your plans, and yes, even your family, take a back seat to Him.

“No Other Gods” Means NO Other Gods

If we’re being honest, we all have gods in our lives. Some are obvious, like money, success, or relationships. Others are sneakier, like control, comfort, or even religion and tradition. And every single one of them is a direct violation of this first commandment. God doesn’t want your idols managed—He wants them destroyed.

Jesus says it this way. “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other.” (Matthew 6:24)

There’s no middle ground. You can’t serve Jesus and your career. You can’t serve Jesus and your ego. You can’t serve Jesus and your comfort. You can’t serve Jesus and your tradition. It’s Him or nothing.

So what does it look like to live with Jesus as the only? It’s simple, but it’s not easy:

  • Surrender daily. Start each day by laying your plans, desires, and ambitions at His feet. One way to do this is through prayer. Just start your day with Lord today I need… Then fill in the blank and let God take it from there. Only caveat is that blank has to be something you cannot touch, so no Porsche or Lambo friends!
  • Hold everything loosely. Your family, career, possessions, and even traditions are gifts from God, not gods themselves. Treat them accordingly. When these things help you serve God, they are good things. When they distract you from God, they are god things.
  • Obey without excuses. Stop bargaining with Jesus. When He calls, answer. When He commands, act. No more excuses. It’s time for full on devotion.

Living this way will wreck your life—in the best way possible. It will strip away the false gods you’ve been clinging to and replace them with the only One worth worshiping.

Ok, so here’s the bottom line. Jesus doesn’t want to be first in your life. He wants to be the only. The first commandment isn’t a suggestion; it’s a declaration of war! War against every competing affection in your heart.

So stop ranking Him. Stop fitting Him into your schedule. Stop treating Him like a task to check off. Tear down the idols, clear the stage, and let Him reign as the one true King.

Because if Jesus isn’t the only, He isn’t anything.

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